I've been using an explanation similar to this to explain my brain to boys. It's a little bit different, but I can see the similarities. 3 brains. head brain, heart brain, and vagina brain. They all want different things most of the time, but when they are all aligned, then you know you're doing something right. (hasn't happened for me yet It's also really helpful in decision making. Take a poll before a relationship decision. 3/3 or 2/3, you're good to go. 1/3 or 0/3. Walk away. It's been super useful for me.